f(x) Red Light , All Night , Milk
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okay, i usually don’t make posts about fandom drama on here, but i honestly have a lot to say. i know a lot of people won’t agree with me, but i honestly don’t care.
so i woke up to the news that sulli and choiza confirmed they’re dating. wow, big shock, right?
not at all. honestly, it’s something we’ve all known since last year. yet somehow, this news along with photos of them being on a date set off a lot of anger in f(x) fans. hm.
i get it. red light promotions were cut short because of sulli’s hiatus. but what were people expecting? for sulli to sit around all the time and be a depressed shut in until she felt like she could handle the spotlight again? cuz seriously, if that’s what you were expecting, that’s really sad.
f(ans) are making a big issue out of this. i honestly have no issue or ill feelings for sulli. and honestly, SM would have saved a lot of grief if they confirmed it day one. seriously. things would not be as bad as they are right now if they had just confirmed it. also, i’m sure f(x) was aware of her dating choiza before this news broke out. victoria showed support for ssul at her pirates premiere, as did other sm artists. again, i am positive they knew exactly what sulli was up to at the time they went.
if sulli wants to leave f(x), then let her in peace. if this happens, it might be the best thing for her and the group. but if she wants to stay, i am 100% okay with that. i love sulli. i have loved sulli since i became an f(x) fan. i have been a fan of this group and loved this group for too long to just turn my back on a member because of some dating scandal and f(ans) who start rumours of sulli leaving the group.
i can see how f(ans) see this as sulli betraying the group. but then again, i’m sure there are some f(ans) out there that are in toxic relationships (whether it be dating or friendship) and won’t leave it because they “love” the person. or they keep running back to a person who is toxic for them. yes, i am saying that choiza is toxic for sulli, but at the same i don’t know. i don’t know either sulli or choiza personally. all i can go by is something i have assumed about both parties.
basically the whole issue is sulli went out on a date with choiza while on hiatus. nothing more. sulli hasn’t even left the group suddenly, she hasn’t even filed a lawsuit. all she’s done is go on hiatus and gone out on a date with her boyfriend. that is seriously the only issue here. and for me, that isn’t enough reason to hate on sulli. she may have betrayed her members, but then i think, “did she really? would her members kept on being supportive of her if she really betrayed them?” idk man. either way it goes, i’ll accept. but as i said before, i have honestly been a fan for too long and have loved sulli for too long to just turn my back on her because of this situation.
and the rumours of sulli leaving/wanting to leave are all made up by so-called f(ans). and the f(ans) with who have the biggest problem with this situation are mostly the ones with a large amount of followers and hold a lot of influence. and these are the same ones who were mad at amber during her hiatus and got mad at her for being out with her friends. you can say, “both situations are totally different from each other!” but honestly, they’re not. friends and boyfriend have the same standing with me.
however this situation ends, i’ll take it in stride.
support victoria, amber, luna, and krystal.
"why dont you just give him a chance"
idk because im not physically or mentally attracted to him and ‘but he likes you’ or ‘but hes really nice’ isnt going to change the fact that im not interested
Damn, I don’t think women know how much that really hurts
I think it’s hilarious that so many men think rejection is something that only happens to them and that women can’t possibly know what it’s like to feel unwanted.
not even an over reaction
It just makes me sick to my stomach.
"not all cops" but it ain’t about the individual, its the entire institution.
They do this shit and get paid suspension, or demoted to desk duty.
This makes me nauseous :/
When you home alone
u know u fucked up when u still haven’t slept yet and u hear birds chirping outside